Relationships arent' stupid, people are...
In my short 20 years I've observed a lot, more then I would have liked to really. I've seen relationships live and die, I've seen people fall apart, I've seen people sink to the bottom, I've seen hard times, I've seen easy times. I've even experienced a rotten relationship. I sometimes look at all the observation as a negative thing, but really it's a wonderful thing. I'm happy that I've seen what I've seen, I'm also happy that I've learned as much as I have at my age. I sometimes lose hope and think that I will never be happy in a relationship, but really you make yourself happy, you make your relationship work, everything is up to you. There is no excuse for it. Money, security, just having someone to be with, those aren't reasons for a relationship. Love, enjoyment of the person, compassion for the person, lust, those are reasons (all together is best) for a relationship. People who are unhappy usually are that way b/c of either their own selfish wants or needs, or the fact that they don't work at the relationship at all. I mean it's work, but it's also enjoyment. It's seeing that look on someone's face when you enter a room, it's that feeling you get when they touch you or they kiss you, or they just are there. I think people are selfish. When I am with someone I want to make them feel loved and spoiled and I like them to do the same. It's a two way street, it's give it's take, not take take take, give give give. Jesus people piss me off. I mean if you're unhappy being lonely then deal with it until you find someone you really care about, don't just settle, whatever the reason is. I don't understand settling, I want to be with someone who loves me and I love or I don't want it at all. I'd rather be alone then with someone I am tolerating. A relationship should be built on an absolute love and respect for the other person. You should want to be with the person a lot, you should love all those weird things that make them who they are, you should cheerish them, not resent them, not want to get away from them as soon as possible. I mean hello!!! Ok, I'm done rambling, just pissed at people. I personally am having a good ole time. I've met someone I really like and I'm just going to take it one day at a time, see what happens. :)
Posted at 04:23 pm by
edsam1
That's me! 
